Cara “CJ” Huxford, 32
Christchurch, property consultant
What are your biggest turn-ons?
A man who is witty and has a great sense of humour, plus a good level of maturity. No one likes a manchild – I’ve dealt with too many. A man in a suit is where it’s at!
What are your relationship red flags?
Someone who’s emotionally unavailable, texts in shorthand and goes barefoot everywhere. I know it’s New Zealand, guys, but come on!
Who’s your dream celebrity date?
The Gentlemen star Theo James. He’s hot, looks mysterious and dresses sexy. Did I mention I love a guy in a suit?
What’s your worst dating disaster?
The first was finding out my ex was attracted to men. The second was when I went on a date with a guy who constantly wanted to play games – not mind games, but actual games. It started out fun, but you can only play rock-paper-scissors for so long before it becomes creepy.
What’s a fun fact about you?
I’m attracted to nerds!
Jesse Brooke, 30
Auckland, mortgage advisor
What are your biggest turn-ons?
I love a woman who has a sense of humour and lives life to the fullest, while being genuine and kind.
What are your relationship red flags?
A massive ick for me is someone who treats others badly. The other hard no is toxic or volatile arguments – I’ll run a mile from a person like that.
Who’s your dream celebrity date?
Jennifer Lawrence is hot, talented and has a sense of humour – she’d be fun!
What’s your worst dating disaster?
It all started when I purchased a toothbrush, which massively displeased my partner. I’m still a bit confused about that one.
What’s the greatest challenge you’ve faced in life?
The most challenging times have been ones that have affected my family members – illnesses and bad accidents. Family means everything to me.
What’s a fun fact about you?
Having recently turned 30, I’ve all of a sudden developed a passion for lawn makeover videos, cooking and golf.
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